1. Family relations.
2. Job change.
3. Changing gender role behavior; old scripts.
4. Home purchase.
5. Changing other people's behavior.
Regarding the last item, if a woman cannot change a situation, she can change her goal of wanting to change it; she can choose to leave it behind. It is a mistake for a woman to start a relationship with a man she wants to change. The frustrations that arise from wishing to change other people often turn into anger.
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