Summing Up Aries

In general, all the Aries woman wants is everything! Her healthiest and most fundamental drive is to be totally in charge of herself and her own life.

The Aries Woman is outstanding in courage and risk-taking ability. Her personality qualifies her to be a leader in the area of alternative lifestyles. Though she is jealous and possessive, she is also committed to adventure and social change.

As she goes through various cycles, she can be difficult, bitchy, or demanding. She may take out her frustrations on other people. She may blame outsiders for failures and weaknesses she fears are hers but resists acknowledging.

It is fascinating to reflect that in order to grow and be fulfilled the Aries Woman must work on many of the qualities of her opposite, Libra. The Aries Woman needs to develop cooperative attitudes, more respect for others, patience, a dash of sensuous self-indulgence, and a better appreciation of her environment. She must learn that there are times when the needs of others take precedence over her impulses or desires, and times when it is in her own best long-term interest to give up some of her insistent clamoring for me-first, me-best independence.

John Donne said, "No man is an island." No woman need try to accomplish everything proudly on her own. Aries must realize that she can slow down, enjoy each step on her path and share her joy. In life one cannot always accomplish a journey directly from A to C without occasionally detouring to B. One must be prepared to savor and accept each experience as a learning phase. This may be especially difficult for Aries, who would probably rather "do her thing" or "stir up some action."

The Aries Woman may resent the fact that life and worldly success in a male-dominated society are in many ways more difficult for a woman. She may find it hard to appreciate some traditional feminine shelters. On the one hand she may feel trapped by her own masculinity, while on the other she may appreciate its potential to contribute to her happiness. She constantly wonders how to deal with her ambition and need for adventure and how to find love.

Aries must learn how to take her potentially negative traits and turn them to positive use. She must be ready to examine her own excesses. When she gets in a hurry, what is she missing? Which traditionally female roles has she assumed, and which has she rejected? What brings her joy and what upsets her? What has she done about traditionally male roles? Each day, she may have to rethink how to live her life, how to balance "mothering" with professional drive, activity with passivity. The Aries Woman must find ways to blend sexual love with competition, alliance with domination, dependence with independence, aggression with softness. For her, self-development comes as much from facing fear and sharing loneliness as from outer activity and triumphant change.

TAURUS

CHECKLIST OF TAURUS TRAITS

Note: This checklist describes the traits of one phase only; if it doesn't seem to fit you, check other lists to find the phase you are in right now.

1.

Romantic

12.

Sensuous

24.

Self-righteous

2.

Artistic

13.

Cautious

25.

Honest

3.

Self-conscious

14.

Stubborn

26.

Dependable

4.

Habit-bound

15.

Persistent,

27.

Pragmatic

5.

Dogmatic

Tenacious

28.

Methodical

6.

Organizational,

16.

Jealous

29.

Builder

Managerial

17.

Placid

30.

Kind

7.

Gende

18.

Shy

31.

Productive

8.

Self-indulgent, Lazy

19.

Conservative

32.

Patient

9.

Possessive

20.

Money-maker

33.

Tolerant

10. Luxury- and

21.

Sentimental

34.

Humble, Self-

Comfort-loving

22.

Greedy

deprecating

11.

Appreciative

23.

Affectionate

35.

Nature-loving

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