Alternative Lifestyles

SINGLE WOMAN/INTIMATE NETWORKS: The Aquarius Woman tends to have many sexual encounters in early adulthood, but generally marries and "setdes down." This doesn't preclude divorce and a return to the single lifestyle; if things don't work out or if what she thought she was getting isn't there, she will change her course quickly. She functions quite well alone, and the complications and limitations of marriage can cause her to remain single for long periods of time. Sexual friendships suit her independent nature well, especially when they don't require too much intimacy.

OPEN MARRIAGE: Aquarius's lack of possessiveness, her need for space of her own, and her intolerance of jealousy all make her available for this option. Her shyness and her civilized upbringing can cause some problems, but if the world at large were none the wiser, she would operate successfully in an open marriage situation.

MÉNAGE À TROIS: Now, this arrangement requires some intimacy on two levels with two different persons. If she can find a three-way setup that doesn't require too much self-revelation she may try it, although she is much more a mental sexual lib-erationist. She is more likely to suggest this arrangement to a friend who is complaining of boredom in her sexual relationship with her husband, then observe the results from a distance.

COMMUNAL LIVING: Aquarius is a natural communal inhabitant. Her extreme diplomacy and her need to show everyone the path to mental freedom place her in the role of leader and teacher. She will be the one with the Whole Earth Catalogue in one hand and the materials to build a hothouse in the other.

GAY/BISEXUAL LIFESTYLE: Her freedom-seeking nature, her avant-garde attitude, and her inquisitive mind can propel her into either of these lifestyles. She can accept the challenge of the homosexual lifestyle and the entanglements it can bring about. She is an excellent role model and spokesperson for gay rights since her courteous, friendly, and civilized traits make her highly acceptable. She will no doubt have the same intimacy problems with another woman that she has with men. She will also attempt to be the aggressive partner in a woman/woman relationship, which doesn't do much to teach her to ask for the affection she denies herself.

Bisexuality intrigues her. She is quick to recognize the maleness and femaleness in everyone, and this affords her an opportunity to exercise the sexual duality that she knows exists. Much of her life will be spent with people involved in alternative lifestyles such as homosexuality and bisexuality. She considers this a valid way to live and defends the right of people to live it whenever she has the opportunity.

As the Aquarian Woman moves into the future, she becomes an androgynous prototype for her sisters. She is one of the first to achieve the balance of the male and female energies. Having recognized that both exist and that putting them in proper relationship satisfies her needs, she embraces the new attitude with great relish. (See "Cosmic Woman" for a more complete discussion.)

When Aquarius becomes aware of all her needs and learns that some of them will only be satisfied when she lets someone do it for her, she will have truly begun to emerge. Her futuristic concepts, her inventive and imaginative mind, her concern for all people, and her self-confidence make her a natural leader. She has the power to, and often does, make people very happy, allowing them the space to grow and learn. A little more attention to the home fires and to what makes her tick will energize her to help further. She has a unique opportunity to see the future age to come, to prepare both herself and her intimates for it, and to have a hand in how we all perceive it.

When she finds a man who will respect her, provide her with what she knows she needs (and what she fails to acknowledge she needs, too) she will blossom. Equality, honesty, inquisitiveness, and friendliness are some of her finest and most admirable traits. None of these will be diminished by warmth; in fact, warmth and closeness will only make her star shine more brightly.

PISCES

CHECKLIST OF PISCES TRAITS

Note: This checklist describes the traits of one phase only; if it doesn't seem to fit you, check other lists to find the phase you are in right now.

1.

Mysterious

13.

Easily Hurt

25.

Unfocused

2.

Beautiful

14.

Sentimental

26.

Escapist

3.

Romantic

15.

Indirect

27.

Artistic

4.

Subde

16.

Dependent

28.

Brooding, Low

5.

Elusive

17.

Intuitive

Energy

6.

Passive

18.

Psychic

29.

Guilt-prone

7.

Mutable

19.

High Spiritual

30.

Self-sacrificing

8.

Adaptive

Strength

31.

Low Self-esteem,

9.

In Love with Love

20.

Dominated by

Self-denigration

10.

Devoted

Subconscious

32.

Procrastination

11.

Gullible

21.

Receptive

33.

Compassionate,

12. Compartmentalized

22.

Depressive

Humanistic

23.

Isolationist

34.

Nurturing

24.

Introverted

35.

Messianic

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