Insecurity in the Cancer Woman

The Cancer Woman's insecurity is classic in that it probably started with self-rejection generated from babyhood impressions. However, the most compelling and universal reason for self-rejection is rejection by someone else. Deep down, Cancer may fear that self-knowledge and revelation would uncover not a narcissus but an ugly frog. She is self-protective all her life, partially because of this belief. Cancer, I advise you to make an inventory of all your assets. Concentrate especially on those...

Coping with Insecurity The Cancer Woman in Love

The Cancer Woman falls in love as she does everything else slowly and cautiously. Impulsive action makes her uncomfortable, and she considers falling in love a serious commitment. Cancer wants from her man material security first, exclusivity second, and social status third. She is unlikely to fall in love with a man who does not offer at least two of these. The only thing that can propel her into an uncharacteristic rash choice is the occasionally unbeatable urge to leave home. Once she has...

Coping with Fear of Intimacy

Aquarius, to cope with your fear of intimacy, you must first evaluate the following 1. What is intimacy to you Do you want it Do you have it 2. If you want it and don't have it, what are you prepared to do about it 3. How do your values in general affect your personal life Do you feel close to your friends Are you comfortable asking them for a big favor Do you reveal yourself to your mate or your current boyfriend What are some of the defensive distancing devices you use We all have some, and...

The Gemini Woman in Love

The words of Victoria Woodhull rather aptly characterize the Gemini Woman in love I am a free lover. I have an inalienable constitution and natural right to love whom I may, to love as long or as short a period as I can, to change that love every day if I please. Gemini needs a lot of patient understanding. She really needs and wants love what turns her off is the responsibility that comes with it. So long as she is the center of attraction for her man, she will move mountains for him. If he...

How To Give A Sagittarius Woman An Orgasim

For the Sagittarius Woman sex is a celebration, and she brings to each encounter the anticipation of a feast. She looks for a companion spirit in her sexual partner, a fellow traveler with whom to share the cornucopia. She seeks a kindred spirit, not lifelong commitment, and in a brief encounter fellow feeling means more to her than the illusion of love. Sagittarius is capable of keeping love and sex quite separate, and she is very comfortable with the one-night affair. At breakfast, she will...

How the Cancer Woman Relates Lovers and Other Intimates

The Cancer Woman can charm and magnedze people by offering to take care of them. She has a maternal yet seductive quality, a softened, persistent willfulness. She may resemble a spoiled child who promises to impart the unique gifts she has collected if only she is sufficiently loved. The Cancer Woman tends to have many, mostly female acquaintances but few close friends. She can keep friends for a lifetime, for she is usually connected to those she loves by an intuitive link strong enough to...

Highly Sexed Vulnerable

The bane of the Capricorn Woman's existence is her constant fear of getting hurt. Perhaps it explains why she frequendy finds fault with her lovers. She may reason that as long as they fail to deliver the perfect goods, she is entitled to withhold her total love. When she lets the ice melt and the flames leap, she often becomes too vulnerable for comfort. It is then that her other side emerges. From behind the queen in control, a child peeks out, vulnerable, delightful, fragile. The Capricorn...

Monogamy and Nonmonogamy

Her broad range of interests and high sense of adventure may lead Sagittarius into simultaneous affairs at some time in her life. She certainly has the physical prowess and mental energy to sustain more than one sexual relationship in the same time frame. It is her characteristic bluntness and occasional insensitivity that will create difficulties when complications in her multiple love life occur. It is extremely unlikely that the Sagittarius Woman will embrace a long-term monogamous...

Patterns in the Gemini Womans Sexual Relationships

The concept of the primary relationship was tailored for the Gemini Woman. She doesn't make commitments easily because of her dual nature, her need for ever-changing scenarios, and her fear of being tied down. She won't directly confront this aspect of her personality instead she will bend over backwards to continue in a sexual relationship with one man while adding others to her stable. She sincerely believes in the Primary Commitment her involvement with other men is simply for variety She's...

How the Gemini Woman Relates Lovers and Other Intimates

Often the Gemini Woman's rather unrealistic approach to relationships isn't designed so much to fool those with whom she comes in contact as to serve as her own defense mechanism. She fears intimacy and reality and spends much of her energy in flight or fancy. She is often surrounded by many people, which hides her deep-seated feelings of loneliness not only from others but from herself. In her frantic quest to gain omniscience about people and circumstances, she often fails to use others as a...

Patterns in the Aquarius Womans Sexual Relationships

In her sexual relationships, the Aquarius Woman seems to display the following patterns to some extent, these apply to her platonic ties as well 1. She tends to be an early bloomer, open to experience and experiments. The idea of sex turns her on strongly, and she is often spurred to action by rebellion or by the desire to show off and be different. 2. She is apt to have many sexual relationships before she marries. She likes her freedom and may try all varieties of lifestyles before she...

The Sagittarius Woman in Love

For the Sagittarius Woman, love is sex. To her, romance is the mystery of a one-night stand. Love comes out of friendship, because any continuing relationship with a Sagittarius Woman depends on mutual honesty and a high level of communication. She will only fall in love with a man who is her equal and who will grant her the independence she offers him. Sex for her is religion but is also a completely animal experience, for the animal is sacred to her. Her goddess is Diana the Huntress, and the...

Alternative Lifestyles

SINGLE WOMAN INTIMATE NETWORKS Her tenacity, persistence, and patience can enable Taurus to embrace this lifestyle. Although she delights in companionship and sexual fulfillment, she will remain single until she has found her Crown Prince. Her need for the highest quality in everything, including her men, makes her very selective. Once she has found her ideal man, she will probably firm the relationship up and make a strong commitment within months. And should she somehow slip up and make a...

Patterns in the Cancer Womans Sexual Relationships

The Cancer Woman tends to display the following patterns in her sexual relationships (to some extent these apply to platonic ties as well) 1. Her hormones awaken early, though her conditioning may deter her from acting. She tends to have a secret love affair with her sexual self and may be more open to physical experiments than to the risky ups and downs of emotional engagements. Masturbation may be a very frequent activity. 2. She tends to marry early, either to escape a difficult home...

Neurotic Sex Drive Game Player

The Gemini Woman can be just as sexy as any woman of the Zodiac she merely loses interest quickly. She is intellectually interested in the idea of sex but often less concerned about the physical reality. In some ways she would rather watch than participate although she knows that sex is an important part of life. The Gemini Woman often uses sex to validate her ego. As long as she can attract and lure men, she feels young and romantic. When she gets a man to chase her, she feels she still has...

Thinskinned Petty Vengeful

The Cancer Woman is vulnerable to sniping, criticism, and aggression, and she is uncomfortable with people who lack social conscience or personal sensitivity. She has very thin skin and is often hurt by an unintended slight. Since she has a long memory, this can create unfortunate situations. She is apt to file for future reference a careless remark Ms. Gemini tosses off. Ten years later, when Gemini comes to visit, she is likely to find Ms. Cancer cool and bitchy, and Gemini will never know...

Early Sex Experiences

In matters of sex, the young Taurus girl tends to deal in extremes. She is either very conservative or very precocious. At one extreme, perhaps due to the loss or incapacitation of her mother, she may assume a great deal of responsibility. When she shares the duty of rearing brothers and sisters, she develops such an adult posture that she has little time for childhood games and few opportunities for sexual experimentation. With the responsibilities of an adult thrust on her, she will assume...

The Virgo Woman in Love

Virgo is a labyrinth, a paradox of feelings. She is romantic and conjures magic with her walk her body telegraphs a knowledge her mind may not catch. She may be a creature of ambivalence, a heated body with a cool mind. She makes the art of love into a craft, fashioning relationships slowly, with delicate fingers, body, and smiles backed by an incessantly active and practical brain. Whatever Lola wants, Lola is apt to get, but she also gives Larry his due. She is typically a dedicated, serious...

The Scorpio Woman in Love

When she is in love, the Scorpio Woman can be a sexy pussycat. She is a giver. She can organize life to suit her man. If he wants his pipe by the easy chair, his slippers by the fire, dinner on time, and sex galore, she'll make sure he gets it all. Eliminate her jealousy or anger, and the Scorpio Woman is miles ahead of the rest of us in her use of will power. Even with her problems, she is fascinating and effective. Among the roles she may choose to play to please her man (and incidentally to...

What Kind of Lover She Needs

A man who is willing to go slow, to pamper her with words of endearment and devotion, is bound to get to first base with the Cancer Woman. She needs and wants an exclusive relationship, and the man who is right for her will want it too. She needs a man who is able to provide a great deal of overall security, emotional as well as material. The man who can't fulfill this need who never knows what time he will be home, does not wish to leave his telephone number when he travels, is never jealous...