Pisces Sexuality

During her lifetime, the Pisces Woman undergoes radical changes in her sexuality. A woman with multiple selves and varied needs, she is initially more openly concerned with social and moral issues than with psychosexual development. Sexually, she is a late bloomer. Her judgment in love is clouded. Often, she mistakes fantasy for love. She mistrusts men, has a martyr complex, and is repeatedly deeply hurt. Like her sign, Pisces' sexuality is double-edged. Inexperienced, she is a delicate flower...

Capricorn Sexuality

Capricorn is usually underrated sexually because not every observer is astute enough to penetrate her cool white-gladiola demeanor and detect her luscious red-rose core. The Capricorn Woman flowers fully only when the occasion feels right. And she takes her time about deciding. She may be a femme fatale with the wisdom of an old lady and the grace and ingenuity of a young colt. She is picky she may blow hot and cold, but when she falls, she falls very hard. The case of the immovable object...

How the Aquarius Woman Relates Lovers and Other Intimates

Aquarius can attract people by any avenue she chooses, for such is the power of her mind. She typically has many more platonic friends than sexually consummated reladonships. She prefers cultured, interesting, offbeat people to jocks or an erotic merry-go-round, and her appeal is likely to consist of pleasant physical attractiveness rooted in intelligence, curiosity, and an air of civilized concern. The Aquarius Woman does not place as high a value on having sex appeal as many of her sisters...

Virgo Sexuality

The Virgo Woman has learned our cultural messages about sex only too well. She tends to develop technical proficiency before she develops sexual soul. She is apt to be disciplined, strong, and high-minded, and she is often repressed. It is seldom easy for her to overcome sexual guilt or the fear of being inadequate. In our culture, sex has ceased to be a natural function. Our sex education is largely negative, subliminally imparted. Seductive but unreal billboard, movie, and television ads and...

What Kind of Lover She Needs

The Cosmic Woman is an integrated, multidimensional woman who has crossed both the Zodiacal and cosmic planes. Hers is the understanding, the caring, the nurturing of Mother Nature her needs, too, are basic and natural. The honest and down-to-earth approach the Cosmic Woman embraces in her relationships is perhaps even more obvious and present in her sexual expression. She is realistic about her own needs, the needs of her lover, and the needs they share. She doesn't expect miracles she more...

Cerebral of Two Minds Inquisitive

The Gemini Woman has a mind that races ahead of her body. Thus, she finds it difficult for her pen to keep up with her thoughts. In fact, it is hard for her to still her mind once it has been set in motion. The wheels keep turning no matter how she tries to stop them. Insomnia, confusion, error, and nervous exhaustion are often the result of not being able to control the mind. Her curious mind asks the question Why She probes, studies, analyzes, until she is satisfied that she knows the...

Patterns in the Cancer Womans Sexual Relationships

The Cancer Woman tends to display the following patterns in her sexual relationships (to some extent these apply to platonic ties as well) 1. Her hormones awaken early, though her conditioning may deter her from acting. She tends to have a secret love affair with her sexual self and may be more open to physical experiments than to the risky ups and downs of emotional engagements. Masturbation may be a very frequent activity. 2. She tends to marry early, either to escape a difficult home...

Monogamy and Nonmonogamy

Unexpected events mark the romantic life of the Aquarius woman. She tends to have a split personality she is likely to be scrupulously fixed in her primary affection, as if by oath. The principle is important. However, circumstances are likely to test her love many times over. Life, as it were, conspires against serenity. Of thirteen Aquarius women I interviewed, eight had been separated from their husbands for a considerable time early in marriage by the intervention of war, revolution, or...

What She Needs to Learn

Specifically, the Pisces Woman needs to distinguish between commitment and attachment, which produce different feeling states. The mate or friend involved with the newly emerging Pisces Woman needs to support her search and her growth. He or she must accept the Piscean need to break some ties. It is essential to trust that her search will yield more self-esteem and that ultimately this will strengthen the relationship. The turmoil that accompanies the emergence of a new self is to be expected....

General Traits and Background

The Capricorn Woman is blessed with a deep hunger for living, for achieving, and for triumphing over the odds. She is an expert at coping with crisis and adversity, and during her usually long life she has plenty of chances to prove herself. She is a survivor, a loyal lover and friend she frequently manages the affairs of others with more flair and perspicacity than she runs her own. Her health and happiness usually increase with time. She may not feel really sure of herself until about age...

Expressing Anger

Scorpio, the following is a basic guide to help you deal with anger 1. Learn to identify your anger. Use the following as your best clues a. Your body language. If you are leaning forward, flashing your eyes, pointing your fingers, and jabbing the air, you are probably angry. b. Your verbal expressions. Learn to identify the expressions you commonly use to disguise or communicate anger. c. Your feelings of stress. What part of your body does it hit Are you sick right now When did it start See...

Coping with Fear of Intimacy

Aquarius, to cope with your fear of intimacy, you must first evaluate the following 1. What is intimacy to you Do you want it Do you have it 2. If you want it and don't have it, what are you prepared to do about it 3. How do your values in general affect your personal life Do you feel close to your friends Are you comfortable asking them for a big favor Do you reveal yourself to your mate or your current boyfriend What are some of the defensive distancing devices you use We all have some, and...

Summing Up Virgo

The Virgo Woman, with her keen insight and ability to tell the truth, can teach us a great deal about ourselves. She is a good model for loyalty, efficiency, analysis, and organization. She is valuable in a corporate context and is usually successful at anything she chooses to do. Personally, she has a great deal to learn. She tends to throw herself headlong into a task and may be described as obsessive-compulsive. She combines low self-esteem with considerable self-reliance and...

Love and Sex

For the Sagittarius Woman sex is a celebration, and she brings to each encounter the anticipation of a feast. She looks for a companion spirit in her sexual partner, a fellow traveler with whom to share the cornucopia. She seeks a kindred spirit, not lifelong commitment, and in a brief encounter fellow feeling means more to her than the illusion of love. Sagittarius is capable of keeping love and sex quite separate, and she is very comfortable with the one-night affair. At breakfast, she will...

Sensitive Ego Mediocre Selfesteem

In ancient Egypt, Cancer's sign was represented not by the crab but by the scarab, or dung beetie. Both creatures are protected by a shell, and the Cancer Woman, too, seems to need a layer of defenses to cover her soft, tender, vulnerable side. The crab, like the scarab, has the function of devouring the transitory and thereby effecting regeneration. The Cancer Woman, by absorbing the negative emotions around her and replacing them with her healing balm, can bring about spiritual...

Changing Patterns

Self-awareness is essential for change. The Taurus Woman may not want to confront herself or her behavior, but she will have to if she wants to change her reactions. Rage is not just anger expressing itself it is the self, searching and puzzled. In dealing with her anger, the Taurus Woman needs to 1. Accept conflict as inevitable. 2. Realize anger is manageable if expressed at the time it is initially felt. 3. Remember that she can always learn from another's counsel. 4. Accept that group...

Leo Personality

There is a version of the story of Eve and Adam in which Eve takes a bite of the apple to become godlike. Subsequently, goes the tale, Eve and Adam are chased out of the Garden of Eden by an inferior class of gods envious of her luscious sensuality and open ambition to deputize herself a divinity. Eve, the Eternal Female, had pronounced Leo traits and was probably experiencing the urges characteristic of the Leo phase of growth. In her ingestion of the forbidden fruit, her dynamic creativity...

Virgo Lifestyles

There are women who are content with monogamous marriage and never seriously consider taking a lover. There are women who fantasize about an affair but don't wish to bring the fantasy to fruition. Some women are so bound by their upbringing and the need to conform to societal sanctions that they do not admit, even to themselves, that they are bored, frustrated, and unfulfilled by unswerving, full-time physical and emotional exclusivity with their mates. Some women may cheat on their husbands...

Sexual Selfimage

It is often true that the sexiest-looking women are the most sexually insecure. A number of Libra Women have a poor self-image, a negative body image, and deep sexual fears. For a woman, the enjoyment of sex is tied to familiarity with the female body, with her own sexual response as well as with the male sexual response, and above all, to her love of self. The Libra Woman relies heavily on the media, especially on best-selling women's magazines like Cosmopolitan and Vogue, to set standards of...

The Aquarius Woman in Love

When Aquarius is in love, she feels together and integrated. Her heart opens up, and duty is suffused with pleasure. Her experimental nature invents all kinds of delicious ways to keep her partner interested, and she tingles with almost electric stimulation. Love sparks her whole being her creative juices flow more than ever. She plugs into 220 volts and runs her sleek engine at a consistent, amazingly high rpm. She buzzes with plans and excitement. For once, she may feel the future is assured...

Summing Up Taurus

Much of the Taurus Woman's energy is used in gaining control. She feels that material wealth will provide her with security and happiness in turn. More than any other sign, Taurus carries unhealthy tendencies towards gross materialism. She also tries to exercise too much control over those around her, not so much for the power this brings, but more for the sake of their best interests. She must learn that everyone has to develop a sense of their own best interests and learn to fulfill them...

The Method Of Color Meditation

Lie down or sit comfortably with your eyes closed. Make sure that everything is quiet around you and that you will not be interrupted for the duration of your meditation (anywhere from about seven minutes to over half an hour). 2. With your eyes closed, picture yourself standing at the base of a flat-topped pyramid. Stretching ahead of you and up are seven steps in seven colors. You will go up slowly, step by step. 3. Step on the first step, which is red. Imagine your body suffused with the...

How Leo Relates Lovers and Other Intimates

The Leo Woman has a bent toward egocentric rulership. Endowed with good looks and desiring attention, she often dominates her man. She must learn to keep a tight rein on her ruling instinct and channel it into safe and constructive areas. She may be a femme fatale, a glamorous queen who turns every man's head. She may have an irreducible, charismatic quality that reflects her intuition of her own great potential. She may project a sexiness that most men find alluring and irresistible, and that...

The Scorpio Woman in Love

When she is in love, the Scorpio Woman can be a sexy pussycat. She is a giver. She can organize life to suit her man. If he wants his pipe by the easy chair, his slippers by the fire, dinner on time, and sex galore, she'll make sure he gets it all. Eliminate her jealousy or anger, and the Scorpio Woman is miles ahead of the rest of us in her use of will power. Even with her problems, she is fascinating and effective. Among the roles she may choose to play to please her man (and incidentally to...

Alternative Lifestyles

SINGLE WOMAN INTIMATE NETWORKS Her tenacity, persistence, and patience can enable Taurus to embrace this lifestyle. Although she delights in companionship and sexual fulfillment, she will remain single until she has found her Crown Prince. Her need for the highest quality in everything, including her men, makes her very selective. Once she has found her ideal man, she will probably firm the relationship up and make a strong commitment within months. And should she somehow slip up and make a...

The Virgo Woman in Love

Virgo is a labyrinth, a paradox of feelings. She is romantic and conjures magic with her walk her body telegraphs a knowledge her mind may not catch. She may be a creature of ambivalence, a heated body with a cool mind. She makes the art of love into a craft, fashioning relationships slowly, with delicate fingers, body, and smiles backed by an incessantly active and practical brain. Whatever Lola wants, Lola is apt to get, but she also gives Larry his due. She is typically a dedicated, serious...

The Sagittarius Woman in Love

For the Sagittarius Woman, love is sex. To her, romance is the mystery of a one-night stand. Love comes out of friendship, because any continuing relationship with a Sagittarius Woman depends on mutual honesty and a high level of communication. She will only fall in love with a man who is her equal and who will grant her the independence she offers him. Sex for her is religion but is also a completely animal experience, for the animal is sacred to her. Her goddess is Diana the Huntress, and the...

Summing Up Libra

Ugly duckling or love princess, sex goddess or wife, Libra is more likely than not to be charming and tres femme. If she fails to experience pleasure in her relationships, she will continue to search for it. The search may take her through many new partners and lifestyles and may lead to a new sexual identity. The Libra ugly duckling is supposed to believe in herself and grow up to be a swan. She will then be able to teach out of her own experience and by her own example that love is a properly...

Cancer Sexuality

The Cancer Woman's most intriguing sexual secret is that she is much more dominant than she appears. Her modest facade disguises a tigress with a solid, repetitive repertoire. She won't be rushed, loves to be fussed over, prized, snuggled, and wooed, but when she takes the reins, her man is the one to surrender. The Cancer Woman tends to keep her intense sexuality under wraps. She does not flaunt it she sends it subtly over the airwaves. The perceptive observer warms to the steady sexual glow...

Sense of Responsib ility Dedication

The Capricorn Woman is thoroughly loyal, a dedicated friend and employee, and a responsible human being. She is ambitious, and she has a good heart. She is also dedicated to herself and seldom loses a battle unless she has just calculated that it may be necessary in order to win the war. Nobody, except perhaps Taurus, is as reliable as she at keeping the books and taking care of money or property. She likes clipping coupons, too, and always uses them. She gets the best value for her money and...

Cosmic Relationships

Personal relationships occupy a central place in the life of the Cosmic Woman. They provide living textbooks for the study of human nature, and a walking laboratory that reflects the various phases she will undergo in her own life. She observes carefully and uses her observations to teach others about relationships. She does not feel completely fulfilled if she is unable to participate in multiple relationships. She has too much to learn for exclusivity. Many are attracted to her for help. She...

Sagittarius Anger

When the Sagittarius Woman is angry, she channels her forceful energy into restlessness, irritability, sarcastic wit, and snide comments. She fears this important emotion in much the same way that she fears intimacy. She doesn't want the varied passions that accompany close contact with others. The Sagittarius Woman may stomp her foot occasionally, shout, and even cry when she is angry. However, such displays always embarrass her she doesn't want to appear weak or out of control. Her reaction...

Low Selfesteem Hard Worker

Virgo is usually such a hardworking, intelligent person that she is worth her weight in gold. She stands as a beacon of trustworthy industry in a society that has lately been questioning the value of hard work, evidently in reaction to the ultra-puritanical work ethic of our ancestors. She tends to work hard and play little. As a result, she may go through periods when she feels left out and prematurely aged. She may rebel at long last and perhaps experience a selfish Aries or Leo phase or a...

Androgynous

Recognizing that she has male and female energies working in her, the Cosmic Woman seeks to understand this phenomenon and learn to utilize both in her quest for self-actualization. Tired of the Cancer phase that has dominated our national life, where the female is expected to be submissive, bending, ultrafeminine, and a homemaker, women in the 1960s entered into the man's world with all the considerable force their male energy could muster. They sought to imitate men and thus became victims of...

Pisces Anger

Anina Bennett, age 13 Emotions' ' The sexually restricted Pisces Woman is also limited in her ability to recognize and express her anger. It takes her a long time to acknowledge her anger, to delve for the causes and situations that trigger it. Reasons for anger are often buried in the past, but the immediate provocations for anger are current. It is more productive for the Piscean to take a close look at present situations than to look far into the past. The Pisces Woman is likely to get sick...

Selfesteem

The Cosmic Woman is not a product of her environment, but a product of inner growth. She has overcome the narrow bounds of society and become universal in the process. She loves herself, and this enables her to express her emotions and her feelings freely in any situation or circumstance. Her self-love seems to generate loving energy that flows from her even in moments of anger. The Cosmic Woman had a hard time overcoming societal attitudes toward women, but she persevered. She has now come to...

Repressed

The Scorpio Woman must learn to cope with one of the results of her all-or-nothing nature, her repressed emotions. She often acts as if she had a stopper in her throat. When it blows, she can go to shattering extremes to let off steam. She can swallow years of domestic abuse and then one day walk out without a nod to her husband. She can tolerate battles on the job with no sign of misery and then down her boss and colleagues with a devastating attack to the gut. She is as good at repressing...

Introverted Unfocused Escapist Artistic

Pisces is the astrological sign concerned with hidden feelings, negative emotions, self-hurt, and all places of confinement. Pisces deals with restriction. Those who read standard astrological manuals know that Pisces is the sign type considered especially vulnerable to escapism. Alcohol and drugs are two usual routes. A Piscean of lower consciousness would rather not be tested and frequently avoids situations in which failure can be measured. She avoids success as well, and spends her life...

Gullible

The Sagittarius Woman is as gullible as she is trustworthy. She will accept what you tell her at face value and never look beneath the surface for hidden meanings or intent. Again, woe to the shy, repressed, or indirect You may never make your message clear to the Sagittarius Woman, who, quite frankly, can't see why people hem and haw as they do. Undeceiving as she is, Sagittarius is often far too easy to deceive, though her strong intuition and her sense of independence protect her from most...

Identifying and Expressing Anger

The Capricorn Woman must become fully aware of what she feels in every area, including anger. Is she angry With whom How much of her anger might be the result of her upbringing, her temperament, or problems in her current relationships or lifestyle What old scripts are still alive in her head Is the good girl or class valedictorian syndrome strong What do they have to do with producing anger The main source of anger in the typical Capricorn Woman is a sense of powerless-ness. She usually...

Libra Anger

We feel loving, greedy, lusty, jealous, sad, happy and we feel angry. The Libra Woman is a dove whose hawk side comes out unexpectedly under stress, usually in the form of pretended concern. She has an enormous problem with unacknowledged, repressed anger. She is first of all unlikely to recognize her anger. Second, she does not know how to express anger honestly and constructively. Lest she feel overwhelmed by the problem, she should rest assured that almost...

Virgo Anger

The Virgo Woman's greatest problem with anger is that she seldom recognizes it. Her other main problem is that she fears expressing it. But she is not alone. Anger, in general, is considered socially unacceptable, and for this reason most of us are taught to repress it. Violence and poor emotional functioning often result. So-called sex crimes, such as rape, are extreme examples of the explosion of pent-up violent anger. Rape has nothing to do with sex. It is an act of rage. Recent research...

Highly Sexed Vulnerable

The bane of the Capricorn Woman's existence is her constant fear of getting hurt. Perhaps it explains why she frequendy finds fault with her lovers. She may reason that as long as they fail to deliver the perfect goods, she is entitled to withhold her total love. When she lets the ice melt and the flames leap, she often becomes too vulnerable for comfort. It is then that her other side emerges. From behind the queen in control, a child peeks out, vulnerable, delightful, fragile. The Capricorn...

Capricorn Lifestyles

The Capricorn Woman is excellent marriage material. She needs and wants a sustained relationship that fulfills her social, material, and emotional needs. She is probably one of the best candidates for a good old-fashioned pleasure bond stemming from a long-term primary relationship. However, it usually takes her awhile to get there. She may be looking for marriage or a strong primary relationship, and she may not wish to separate sex and love, but she is normally a late bloomer in finding...

How the Virgo Woman Relates Lovers and Other

Virgo is often irreproachably correct in her manners and interactions. She does all the right things, or at least looks as if she does. It is difficult for others to show disagreement or hostility in the presence of a paragon of virtue who seems to know it all, and perfectly at that. Like a good quarterback, the Virgo Woman usually has a game plan and generally evaluates things correctly. She is a staunch defender of her ideas, and a convincing debater. She frequently has control of her amorous...

Lovers and Husbands

Above all, the Cancer Woman needs a man who accepts her strange moods without demanding explanations. She probably couldn't give them if she tried, and it is far better for him to accept her as she is and cuddle her than to push her. She needs a man who can build a cocoon around her, eventually enveloping the two of them and their offspring. She wants to feel protected from the ugliness and neediness of the world, and she dreads poverty. Therefore, her man should make enough money and have...

Anger

To avoid the root causes of their anger. They are afraid to change, to risk the vulnerability of feedback about their own behavior and attitudes. As a result, they become habitual nags or fighters and always project their rage. This rage is really self-hate. Eventually, ,if the situation becomes chronic, they are no longer able to feel any emotion. In this case, the constant verbal barrage serves only to deaden their emotional being. It is an unhealthy, unproductive method of coping with life's...

Thinskinned Petty Vengeful

The Cancer Woman is vulnerable to sniping, criticism, and aggression, and she is uncomfortable with people who lack social conscience or personal sensitivity. She has very thin skin and is often hurt by an unintended slight. Since she has a long memory, this can create unfortunate situations. She is apt to file for future reference a careless remark Ms. Gemini tosses off. Ten years later, when Gemini comes to visit, she is likely to find Ms. Cancer cool and bitchy, and Gemini will never know...

Subtle Manipulative

The Cancer Woman spins her web subtly but dramatically. Nothing is too mundane to spark her imaginadon, and nobody is too insignificant to attract her notice. She is not the sort who turns around to stare at people, but she appraises them thoroughly out of the corner of her eye. She is knowledgeable about the art of living because she herself is an artist. She tends to be a participant, rarely an outside observer. She is not usually the flamboyant center of attention, but she may be the only...

Securityconscious Domestic Materialistic

Only Taurus can equal Cancer in her energetic concern for security, the material aspects of survival. Cancer tends to focus on the basics the quest for food, shelter, and the guarantee of comfortable, if not luxurious, living absorbs her. Sex is basic too, but the Cancer Woman tends to use it as her security blanket. The Cancer Woman understands why progressive zoos create homelike habitats for their animals. As far as she is concerned, people who lack a home that resembles their...

Cancer Lifestyles

The Cancer Woman is apt to be highly family-oriented, to want and need family love in her life. At the same time, she is able to use sex simply as a source of pleasure, and she leads an alternative or secret life more often than appearances might suggest. She has some hedonistic tendencies, and they conflict with, but are not always checked by, her self-image as a good mother and wife. Still, the Cancer Woman is apt to be inherently loyal above all to her brood. She may not be sexually faithful...

Taurus Girl Explosive Anger

This anger eventually overloads her circuits. She will explode in blind rage months or years after the events causing the original pain. The incident that triggers her explosion may be so minor that it has little relation to the scope of her anger. Women have to walk a delicate tightrope in expressing emotion. They are conditioned to deny negative feelings other than jealousy. The Taurus Woman knows her place and respects authority. These attitudes reinforce the denial of her deep, sensitive...

Coping with Anger

An important principle for Cancer to remember is this Anger is a reaction. When we feel angry, it is because something in our background or personal value system has been challenged. That something tells us we ought to react by being angry. But anger, like love, is a choice, a choice we make on the basis of our subconscious values and attitudes. Thus, we can choose to change it by changing the values that lead us to feel it. One of the things that makes the Cancer Woman angriest is to be...

Summing Up Gemini

The Gemini Woman is indeed one of the most exciting women in the world. She has many, many positive traits that are often overshadowed by her insecurity and by the search for her elusive soulmate, her other half. She contains all the essential elements of a happy and evolved woman. Too often these parts are scattered and strewn about, much like the windblown seeds of the cottonwood tree. Getting it together Self-improvement Working it out all are concepts the Gemini Woman naturally rejects...

Short Attention Span Changeable Noncommittal

If you made a date with a Gemini Woman a week ago, be sure to call her that morning. It may have slipped her mind. She no doubt has it written on her calendar, but in all probability, she will have forgotten to look at it when she got up. All the work she has to do will be piled on her desk. She feels that if she tucks it away, she will forget it. She drops letters, books, and newspapers right where she stops reading them so she can be sure to find them again when she is in the mood. I have...

High Sex Drive Sensitive

The Cancer Woman is full of delightful surprises. She is shy, but she is highly sexual. She is intuitive, but she is also strongly physical. These combinations are difficult for members of the opposite sex to resist. She is a desirable woman who may promise little verbally but still convey the feeling that she delivers a great deal. She may faithfully guard the home gates or climb the ladder of worldly success, but she is rarely, if ever, out of touch with a deep, almost primitive sensuality....

How the Cancer Woman Relates Lovers and Other Intimates

The Cancer Woman can charm and magnedze people by offering to take care of them. She has a maternal yet seductive quality, a softened, persistent willfulness. She may resemble a spoiled child who promises to impart the unique gifts she has collected if only she is sufficiently loved. The Cancer Woman tends to have many, mostly female acquaintances but few close friends. She can keep friends for a lifetime, for she is usually connected to those she loves by an intuitive link strong enough to...

Cancer Relationships

Cancer must learn how to love without trying to own the people she loves she needs also to be more fully aware of when and how to end bad relationships. Breaking up may be hard to do, but for the Cancer Woman, it is pure hell. She seldom lets go, frequently clinging to losers or victimizers. She is often mistreated by men. The Cancer Woman senses the real balance of power in human relationships, but unfortunately she often sees them as win-or-lose propositions. She always gets what she wants,...

Coping with Insecurity The Cancer Woman in Love

The Cancer Woman falls in love as she does everything else slowly and cautiously. Impulsive action makes her uncomfortable, and she considers falling in love a serious commitment. Cancer wants from her man material security first, exclusivity second, and social status third. She is unlikely to fall in love with a man who does not offer at least two of these. The only thing that can propel her into an uncharacteristic rash choice is the occasionally unbeatable urge to leave home. Once she has...

Possessive Selfcentered Selfish

The Cancer Woman is apt to be so invested in her man that she becomes exceedingly possessive. She may try to turn anyone she loves into one of her children. She frequently fashions relationships in which she is the mother or authority figure on whom others become dependent. This position gives her a great deal of control, and though she is loath to admit it, it is often control she wants. She is insecure enough to be envious and jealous of people who appear in some way superior to her or who...

Gemini Sexuality

To understand the sexuality of the Gemini Woman, one must first understand the workings of her mind. This is no small task it is as labyrinthine as the circuitry of a computer. It is so tied to her complex inner nature that it seems inseparable from the total fabric of her life. She is indeed very sexual, uniquely and mysteriously so. There are various levels of understanding the complexity of the Gemini Woman. There are also infinite manifestations of the sign. There is probably more variety...

Cancer Anger

The Cancer Woman is often called crabby, and for good reason. She tends to have a simmering temper that typically explodes in theatrical displays. She also cries a lot, and it is difficult to tell how often she dissolves into tears from joy, and how often from anger. She tends to hold a grudge and to avoid discussion and confrontation. I interviewed several Cancer women, and here are some typical responses 1. I love a great cry 2. When I get angry, I must do something. I have to punch or throw...

How the Gemini Woman Relates Lovers and Other Intimates

Often the Gemini Woman's rather unrealistic approach to relationships isn't designed so much to fool those with whom she comes in contact as to serve as her own defense mechanism. She fears intimacy and reality and spends much of her energy in flight or fancy. She is often surrounded by many people, which hides her deep-seated feelings of loneliness not only from others but from herself. In her frantic quest to gain omniscience about people and circumstances, she often fails to use others as a...

Insecurity in the Cancer Woman

The Cancer Woman's insecurity is classic in that it probably started with self-rejection generated from babyhood impressions. However, the most compelling and universal reason for self-rejection is rejection by someone else. Deep down, Cancer may fear that self-knowledge and revelation would uncover not a narcissus but an ugly frog. She is self-protective all her life, partially because of this belief. Cancer, I advise you to make an inventory of all your assets. Concentrate especially on those...

Gemini Opportunist

The Gemini Woman is a creature of the moment. She is so aware of change and its critical nature that she will grab an opportunity the instant it appears. She always sees at least two different ways to go and delights in making the proper choice that is, the choice she feels is in her best interest. She operates more by circumstance than by fixed principle. She has litde regard for consistency or consequences. She is more interested in how a particular situation affects her and how she can turn...

Introduction

I am a therapist who has spent a decade helping women in a variety of ways as founder and president of the Life Crisis Counseling Clinic and of the Flexible Careers Counseling Center, both in Chicago, and both concerned with helping people in the areas of relationships, sexuality, and health as a sexologist currently studying for a Ph.D. in human sexuality and as a teacher who has taught people around the world about love and intimacy, self-esteem, assertiveness, awareness, sexuality, and how...

Neurotic Sex Drive Game Player

The Gemini Woman can be just as sexy as any woman of the Zodiac she merely loses interest quickly. She is intellectually interested in the idea of sex but often less concerned about the physical reality. In some ways she would rather watch than participate although she knows that sex is an important part of life. The Gemini Woman often uses sex to validate her ego. As long as she can attract and lure men, she feels young and romantic. When she gets a man to chase her, she feels she still has...

The Gemini Woman in Love

The words of Victoria Woodhull rather aptly characterize the Gemini Woman in love I am a free lover. I have an inalienable constitution and natural right to love whom I may, to love as long or as short a period as I can, to change that love every day if I please. Gemini needs a lot of patient understanding. She really needs and wants love what turns her off is the responsibility that comes with it. So long as she is the center of attraction for her man, she will move mountains for him. If he...

Patterns in the Gemini Womans Sexual Relationships

The concept of the primary relationship was tailored for the Gemini Woman. She doesn't make commitments easily because of her dual nature, her need for ever-changing scenarios, and her fear of being tied down. She won't directly confront this aspect of her personality instead she will bend over backwards to continue in a sexual relationship with one man while adding others to her stable. She sincerely believes in the Primary Commitment her involvement with other men is simply for variety She's...

Spendthrift

The Gemini Woman acquires knowledge readily and wants to put it to immediate and profitable use. She makes money easily and spends it with abandon. Her bank account is usually a mess. Both money and possessions slip through her fingers like running water. She will spend her last dollar for the sheer joy of spending. Being penniless seems to stimulate the Gemini Woman into new activity. Her motto is often Easy come, easy go. She feels there will always be ways to make more money, and her...

Summing Up Aries

In general, all the Aries woman wants is everything Her healthiest and most fundamental drive is to be totally in charge of herself and her own life. The Aries Woman is outstanding in courage and risk-taking ability. Her personality qualifies her to be a leader in the area of alternative lifestyles. Though she is jealous and possessive, she is also committed to adventure and social change. As she goes through various cycles, she can be difficult, bitchy, or demanding. She may take out her...

Gemini Personality

The Gemini Woman enlivens existence on this otherwise dull and predictable planet. Her fantastic imagination, graced with a lively wit and exhilarating charm, permeates her life, her speech, her attitudes, and her writings. Forever young, she can transmit this feeling to those around her. There is something highly refreshing about her personality. She takes pride in her ability to entertain and excite men. She so enjoys the chase that she has somewhat of a reputation as a tease, for she doesn't...

Early Sex Experiences

In matters of sex, the young Taurus girl tends to deal in extremes. She is either very conservative or very precocious. At one extreme, perhaps due to the loss or incapacitation of her mother, she may assume a great deal of responsibility. When she shares the duty of rearing brothers and sisters, she develops such an adult posture that she has little time for childhood games and few opportunities for sexual experimentation. With the responsibilities of an adult thrust on her, she will assume...

Taurus Lady Breast

Because the Taurus Woman's nature is binary, she is constantly seeking to unite the two parts. Sex and love are no exception. She recognizes that there is a close relationship between the two, but her logic sometimes confuses her. It usually follows that if a man loves her, he wants to have sex with her. This does not necessarily mean that if a man wants to have sex with her, he loves her. Her need for love and affection is as strong as her need for sex. Without love she can feel as empty as a...

Taurus Personality

The Taurus Woman is sensual and seductive. Under a cool, calm, and intellectually aloof exterior, she possesses a whole arsenal of tools designed to attract her man and keep him. From the bedroom to the kitchen, she seems to hold in her genetic code total memory of things eternally female. Little wonder she is often called an Earth Goddess. When she enters a room, everyone is aware that she is there. She is beautiful, radiant, and magnetic. Often she wears the finest clothes, jewelry, and...

Aries Lifestyles

Monogamy is defined as sexual and emotional exclusivity. Stricdy speaking, this makes most Americans, married or not, nonmonogamous, for few people today are emotionally monogamous. But here I will use monogamy in the loose sense, meaning only sexual exclusivity. A woman may be looking for characteristics in a husband different from those she seeks in a lover. The Aries Woman is especially choosy when selecting a provider and father to her children. She knows herself to be capable of grand...

Taurus Sexuality

Taurus the Earth Goddess is a very sexual being. She may seem very placid and composed on the exterior, but underneath the rhythms of the earth beat strongly. Her sensual nature takes over in the bedroom. She makes an art of lovemaking. Scheherezade surely was a Taurus. Never undertake making love to a Taurus Woman unless a large block of time is available for her to express her repertoire. Just kissing her can bring some men to orgasm. Her touch, both gentle and tender, excites and caresses....

Taurus Relationships

Because the Taurus nature is so definite and deeply rooted, nearly all the traits delineated at the beginning of this chapter carry over into any relationship she endeavors to develop. Once she has made a commitment, she will put forth her best effort to make any of her many relationships work. She forms a wonderful half of any duo mate, best friend, co-worker, commiserater. She needs these one-on-one encounters to fulfill her curious yet complex nature. At the same time, she is a perfectionist...

Aries Anger

A major block to healthy sexual expression is anger, which is connected to low self-esteem and the feeling of being ineffectual. The struggle for self-esteem and a sense of importance as a person is a basic human concern. Sexuality in an angry relationship is not a source of pleasure, nor is it a basis on which a couple can share growth and build mutual respect. Repressed or improperly expressed anger is destructive to self-esteem and to relationships. Anger properly communicated and directed...

Aries Sexuality

The Aries Woman approaches sex as she does everything else in life zestfully, impulsively, and with total commitment. She gives all she has and takes all she can get in return. She is open to anything but don't ask about tomorrow sexual exclusivity is not her bag. The challenge of the hunt excites her. Aries is an exceptionally passionate, sensual, and sexual woman. Romantic, erode, and vain, she needs monumental reassurance from a sexual partner. When she feels insecure, she is jealous and...

Aries Relationships

The Aries Woman usually makes a complex, demanding, passionate mate and partner. She has the potential to create a finely tuned, balanced, exciting, offbeat relationship. Like Don Quixote, she is forever searching for an ideal. Where romance is concerned, Aries believes in giving but also wants the moon. She tends to become overinvolved with people and projects because she thinks this is giving. She may overdo to show her independence and separate identity, but her excesses may also be an...

Aries Personality

In her relationships, in love, in work, the Aries Woman demands challenge. She is dynamic and energetic, and she usually feels impelled to make an impact, to create change. She likes to be influential as the head of a household or business and tends to be outgoing, with a zest for living. She is frequently competitive, expecting to be first and hoping to be best in any endeavor she undertakes. She possesses the courage to tackle most situations and may be able to turn what many would regard as...

Judith Bennett

A Thomas Dunne Book An Imprint of St. Martin's Press sex signs. Copyright 1980 by Judith Bennett Copyright 1980 by Gerald Born, Joan Bowman, Kenn Calhoun, andjeannette Kossuth for the following chapters Taurus, Gemini, Sagittarius, and The Cosmic Woman Revisions 1996 byjeannette Kossuth All rights reserved. Printed in the United States of America. No part of this book may be used or reproduced in any manner whatsoever without written permission except in the case of brief quotations embodied in...